{"product_id":"the-sociopath-next-door-by-martha-stout-ph-d","title":"The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout, Ph.D.","description":"\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWho is the devil \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eyou\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e know?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIs it your lying, cheating ex-husband?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYour sadistic high school gym teacher?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eYour boss who loves to humiliate people in meetings?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIn the pages of \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Sociopath Next Door\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e, you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He's a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopaths too.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWe are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals, but in \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Sociopath Next Door\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e, Harvard psychologist Martha Stout reveals that a shocking 4 percent of ordinary people--one in twenty-five--has an often undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. He or she has no ability whatsoever to feel shame, guilt, or remorse. One in twenty-five everyday Americans, therefore, is secretly a sociopath. They could be your colleague, your neighbor, even family. And they can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow do we recognize the remorseless? One of their chief characteristics is a kind of glow or charisma that makes sociopaths more charming or interesting than the other people around them. They're more spontaneous, more intense, more complex, or even sexier than everyone else, making them tricky to identify and leaving us easily seduced. Fundamentally, sociopaths are different because they cannot love. Sociopaths learn early on to show sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others' suffering. They live to dominate and thrill to win.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopaths already. Part of the urgency in reading \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Sociopath Next Door\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know--someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for--is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr. Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIt is the ruthless versus the rest of us, and \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Sociopath Next Door\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e will show you how to recognize and defeat the devil you know.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"A fascinating, important book about what makes good people good and bad people bad, and how good people can protect themselves from those others.\"\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Harold S. Kushner, author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003eWhen Bad Things Happen to Good People\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"The Sociopath Next Door is a chillingly accurate portrayal of evil--the decent person's guide to indecency.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Jonathan Kellerman\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"A remarkable philosophical examination of the phenomenon of sociopathy and its everyday manifestations...Stout's portraits make a striking impact and readers with unpleasant neighbors or colleagues may find themselves paying close attention to her sociopathic-behavior checklist and suggested coping strategies. Deeply thought-provoking and unexpectedly lyrical.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--\u003ci\u003eKirkus Reviews\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e(starred review)\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"A chilling portrait of human beings who lack scruples the way someone born blind lacks eyesight...Stout describes respected professionals who tell outrageous lies simply to confuse colleagues... authority figures who deceive, seduce and even murder just to relieve the boredom that is the usual state of the sociopathic mind. A useful--if appalling--guide to help you recognize conscienceless individuals.. [and] a heartening affirmation of the empathic mindset that comes naturally to the vast majority of humans.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Martha Beck,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eO Magazine\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\"The Sociopath Next Door is a chillingly accurate portrayal of evil- the decent person's guide to indecency. Martha Stout draws upon sound scientific data and clinical experience and her writing is graceful and compelling.\"\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003cb\u003e--Jonathan Kellerman, author of\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eTherapy\u003c\/i\u003e,\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eWhen the Bough Breaks\u003c\/i\u003e, and\u003cspan\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eMonste\u003c\/i\u003er.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eMartha Stout, Ph.D\u003c\/strong\u003e., a clinical psychologist in private practice, served on the faculty in psychology in the department of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School for twenty-five years. She is also the author of \u003c\/span\u003e\u003ci\u003eThe Myth of Sanity\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003e. She lives on Cape Ann in Massachusetts.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHarmony\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePub Date: \u003cspan\u003eMarch 14, 2006\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003eISBN: \u003cmeta charset=\"utf-8\"\u003e9780767915823\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e0.7\" H x 8.0\" L x 5.25\" W\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003e256 pages\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan\u003epaperback\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Penguin Random House","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44305237868730,"sku":"9780767915823","price":20.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0444\/2213\/5968\/files\/716L-3T-W5L._SL1500.jpg?v=1729702065","url":"https:\/\/naturenurture.shop\/products\/the-sociopath-next-door-by-martha-stout-ph-d","provider":"nature+nurture","version":"1.0","type":"link"}